Thanks to my good friend Shawn Shaw, I know Alan Roger Currie, and his philosophies on straight forward, honest communication in approaching women that you are attracted to. Otherwise known as Mode One behavior.
Alan Roger Currie is an author and a dating coach, he has four books, "Mode One" "The Possibility of Sex" "Oooh, Say it Again" and "The Beta Male Revolution". I could do very long and extensive articles regarding each of these books separately, but I just feel like acknowledging ARC right now.
Since discovering him and his techniques and philosophies on interacting with women, I have gained a lot more sexual experiences and wisdom in the dating realm. Before knowing him I was naive about men and women's true sexual nature, the characteristics of alpha males and beta males, and learning to conquer my fears in taking action with approaching women honestly.
He is extremely intelligent and eloquent with his boldness, and has a deep understanding of masculine and feminine behavior and attraction. He does a great job of breaking down aspects of human behavior in dating and sex. He is very extensive and detailed, and allows the reader to fully understand all angles of what he is communicating.
If you are unfamiliar with mode one behavior, it is basically being upfront and honest with your romantic and sexual intentions. It is one of the four modes of communication when dealing with people. It wastes a lot less time when you are straight and to the point with your intentions. Because women already know that when you approach them, that you are interested in them sexually or romantically. Women respect and appreciate the bold honesty more so than coy and indecisive behavior from men.
Depending on the situation, I usually have no problem walking up to a woman and letting her know I am attracted to her, and would like to spend time with her. I have also talked dirty to women and gotten them to come home with me, when it seems "appropriate" to do so. Talking dirty to women is another thing he goes in to extensively. Primarily in his book "Oooh, Say it Again". It can be a scary thing to do, but it can also create some extremely fun and interesting experiences.
As a straight man, you want sex from attractive women, admit it, and don't be an incel. So you might as well let her know that you are interested and give her the opportunity to decide if she is too. Rather than pretend you are really interested in getting to know her so you can make a physical move on the third or fourth date, only to be rejected. Which can provoke you to get upset and angry that you wasted all that time.
I've done it in various places and forms and it has worked for me plenty of times. I've also done it and it hasn't worked, but the rejection came very quickly, and both parties were left self expressed and unharmed. You end up having an authentic conversation with a stranger of the opposite sex about dating and sex, and they may even wish you luck with the next gal.
And as a woman, if you are looking for a relationship with a guy. I imagine that you would rather have a man tell you off the bat that he is only interested in you sexually. Instead of pretend that he is looking for a relationship, go out on a few dates, and then have sex with you. So he could leave after he got what he wanted.
Mode One behavior has changed my life, and listening to this man's audio books has really improved my social and dating life. I invite you all to check him out, here is a brief introduction to him and the mode one approach.
I think there is an aura in the air that men are hornier than women, and this is not true. Women just want us to believe this! Because we will work harder to gain their sexual company (Spend time listening to them, and to spend money and energy impressing and flattering them) if we men believe this.
As an alpha male type, you really do not have to put this time, money and effort in to exchange orgasms with an attractive female. Just be honest and bold with your intentions, and allow women to decide if they will reciprocate or reject your advances. It makes things very simple, and saves time and energy. I suggest you check out his work and become a student of ARC if you want this for yourself.